Readings which are unusually sad due to the loss of loved ones come with the territory in my type of spiritual practice, but some readings are tough because spiritual guidance can bring up difficult truths. These truths, challenging as they may be, usually must be faced before real change can come. These truths quite often deal with love and relationships. Thing is, in love and relationships, we’re in charge of one thing and one thing only – ourselves. We’re in charge of our thoughts and feelings and how we express them. That doesn’t mean pushing uncomfortable feelings away or being unfeeling. It means not allowing feelings to overwhelm and prevent you from living the life you deserve. So it never surprises me when people come to a reading asking about love, and the messages coming through involve everything but love.
Sometimes I have to force the issue with the Higher Realms because the questioner only wants to hear about a singular subject. ”Why am I never lucky in love?” – After learning what I have through thousands of readings, the quick answer would be “You’re never lucky in love because you asked that question right there.” But that isn’t very helpful. In actuality, most times, the reason the person hasn’t found the type of love that they are seeking is because they still need to realize and accept their own value. Instead of feeling as if you have to be “lucky” and love is out of your grasp, you should know with every ounce of your being that it’s just around the corner simply because you are deserving of nothing less. Belief in their own all-deserving nature is why, all kinds of people, from all over the world, who expect good things to happen to them, get good things happening to them – like a magnet.
This is true even for people who aren’t particularly likable. “Why does so-and-so get all the money or get all the power?” – Becase they BELIEVE they deserve it. Does that mean they wake up every morning, and say, “I’m getting whatever I want to today because I deserve it.”? Maybe. But some people have this belief-system built right in, part of their make-up for time immemorial which is then reinforced by the world at large. We’ve all seen wealthy people getting wealthier by the day, sometimes by the minute. Why? Because they believe in their wealth, and boy do they have others believing in it too. The more people who believe in a concept, the stronger the energetic push toward that outcome (kind of like the idea behind prayer circles – the more who pray for healing, the more energy toward that resolution).
Once we question our ability to ever have something in our life, we’ve thrown up a road block.
Does it always work? No, and especially when other souls are involved. And why is that? Because we’re in charge of one thing and one thing only. This means that when it comes to questions of love, to get that super perfect, comfortable, for-the-rest-of-our-lives kind of love, you need to believe it’s yours. And that begins with giving it to yourself, treating yourself in such a way, telling yourself, that you are an amazing human being and deserve nothing of less than an amazing human being to be your partner in life. Then make sure to be in charge of that one thing – you and your thoughts.
